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MKAH

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MKAH last won the day on July 11 2020

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  • Birthday 12/01/1959

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  1. Thank you broncovet, that's exactly why I came here for advice. "Instead, I would have a frank heart to heart talk with your dad..take your time. Get him to talk about it. Mostly, as far as possible, you should honor his requests "unless you know for certian" those requests will harm him and are made when he is not fully sane. " Considering your well thought out comment above, my father would insist that I take over. And I am also certain my father and his wife, would be much worse off than before I got involved. It's easy to understand when you explain it that way. Much respect to you sir! I'll just focus on keeping my dad and stepmom safe and comfortable with the least amount of grief during this last phase of life.
  2. I'll try and make this brief, #1) My 86-year-old, air force retired biological father's health has declined to a point where I have contacted his VA primary care doctor to determine his ability to drive safely. His GP agreed with my assessment and sent the DMV a retest required suspension. After talking with my father, he admitted he would not be able to pass a driving test, so he has voluntarily given up his license and now has a ID card only which I was directly involved in. I have sold his truck and paid off the loan that he had on that vehicle. #2) I have been added to my father bank account where his social security is being deposited #3) I have recently had him fill out a. Advanced Health Directive b. Durable Power of Attorney Both of which are notarized. #4) I have created and account in MyHealthEVet, and upgraded that account to premium so I can review his medical care and direct message his healthcare team (which I have been doing) #5) The MHV login credentials allow me to log into VA.GOV under his username. #6) I have created an Ebenifits account for him, however after multiple attempts to upgrade that account (he is not able to successfully recall the answers to the challenge questions in the allotted time). After speaking with the Ebenifits DS Login staff on the phone (multiple times) while my father was present we were still not able to upgrade his account. Recently, My dad and I again called the DS login tech support staff to try and work out the upgrade problem, but I was told that his account is now LOCKED due to suspicious and or fraudulently (me and my dads) activity and would be available for upgrade status in 31 days. What a Fng shit show. #6) I believe it's prudent for me to apply for Fiduciary responsibility for my father for the following reasons. a. I asked his wife, (my step mother) about his service connected disabilities and she said the only thing he gets from the VA are free hearing aids and medical care. When looking around in MHV and VA.GOV I found that for the past ten years he has been service connected for PTSD (Viet Nam Combat) and is also SC for hearing loss. VA.GOV shows that his combined SC is 40% and is paid approximately $750 dollars each month. After recently asking my father several times if he was aware of any service-connected benefits from the VA, if he has ever applied for such benefits or if he is aware of any monthly compensation for SC disabilities. He said no. I don't; know if his mental decline prohibits his ability to remember, or if he simply doesn't know. In either case, I feel that this needs to eventually be brought to his attention for the following reasons. b. My father’s Airforce retirement and his SC disability income are direct deposited into an account controlled by his wife (my step mother) which he has no realistic access to. My father is ware that his retirement income is deposited into this account, as is his wife's retirement income and that this account is used for the expenses related to the home, utilities, mortgage, tax and related expenses. He has no idea of the balance oif this account, or what the money is being used for. He certainly does not know that SC income from the past ten years is being deposited into this account. After speaking with his wife, I inquired with her about becoming a co-signer on this account but she is reluctant to do so. c. I am not suggesting any nefarious action or motive by his wife of 50+ years, as she has historically managed the finances within there relationship from the beginning. However, there relationship after 50 years if marriage from my point of view is rather caustic and I believe that they remain married (sleeping in separate rooms) for financial convenance more than anything else. d. My stepmother is aware that I now possess a notarized durable power of attorney relating to my father’s health and financial well fair. However, I am curious about the reluctance of my stepmother to allow me direct access to the joint account where my fathers retirement and SC disability is being deposited. Also, I am curious about the SC disability and how she claims she does not have knowledge of that income. Especially considering COLA notification and other VA letters specifically describing topic pertaining to SC income. For the past few months, I have worked with my stepsister (whom I get along with well-but does not have a positive relationship with my father) in working out the details of a TRUST that is being put together by a local lawyer. The trust will be designed to instruct me and my sister on the distribution of assets and keep a surviving spouse from transferring the property into his/her name and excluding the other children. I will mention that the estate after expenses (eg, Mortgage to Value) appears to be very low if not negative. I have purposefully not been more aggressive in attempting to find out the answers to the above questions, until the TRUST is finalized, which will happen sometime late April. Now, the question(s) #1) Do you believe I should apply for fiduciary responsibility for VA and also SS income and all of my fathers related expenses? (If so, where would I start)? #2) Do you believe I should mind my own business and not risk stirring up trouble which would possibly lead to the remaining years of my stepmother and fathers’ lives being even more caustic and complicated? If you have made it this far, thank you for letting me explain my situation and ask the two questions?
  3. This is what the property tax exemption rules are for the county I live in. Shasta county, California. ....The property must be the veterans’ principal place of residence. and The veteran, veteran’s spouse, or both the veteran and veteran’s spouse must be on title to the property (including ownership in a corporation). and The veteran, due to a service connected condition, is rated by the Veterans Administration as 100% disabled, is compensated as 100% disabled, is blind in both eyes, or has lost the use of two or more limbs.... I hope this helps..
  4. Thank you Berta, and thank you for the links. YES, His wife does get SS. It seems you might qualify for the Dependency allowance but I am not sure how that would be affected by his wife's income.- SSA etc. Yes, I think so, he gets hearing aids from the VA, but I am not sure of he is actually service connected. Does your father have any service connected disability rating ? Yes, some kind of military retirement, I assume he might get CRDP or CRSC???? After 20 years Ret., No, He was a three tour Viet Nam vet, Maybe not - Was he a Korean War Veteran? Yes, I assume he does get Military Retirement from USAF.
  5. I hope this is the correct place for this question rather than the CAREGIVER section. Anyway, here goes. My father (a 20 year honorably discharged, retired air force veteran) that is now 88 years old, now requires assistance that his wife, my stepmother (also 88 years old) is not able to provide for him as she is also, no longer capable of doing so. By next week, I will have full power of attorney over my father's healthcare, property, banking & any other assets and liabilities going forward until he passes away. While he is currently able to watch TV, dress, bath, groom, cook simple meals and feed himself, he is not able to do the following: Drive, as he has severe, and uncontrolled vertigo, forgets where he lives and can no longer see in low light conditions. (Soon, I will ask his VA primary care to consider reviewing his health and possibly contacting the DMV regarding suspending his driver's license due to safety concerns). He is unable to schedule, get to and from, hear or comprehend medical information or directions, get to and from pharmacies for his medications, from any Doctor or healthcare representative he encounters. Or anyone for that matter. He is not able to pay bills specifically relevant to him (Phone and car, mortgage, payments), understand debt, income, savings or any fiscally related task or topics. (His wife, my stepmother, is currently paying the household bills thru a joint account and his personal liabilities thru his account which she is a signatory on). His mental acuity is what I personally consider to be notably worse than a person of his age. Such as him possibly attempting to work on household electrical systems, climb ladders, etcetera. I visited him yesterday and his land line phone does not function, he does not understand how to use his cell phone, his doorbell does not function, and he cannot hear me knock on his front or rear door, requiring me to enter his house without permission. He may qualify for a bed in a local VA resident retirement facility, but I want to see how he does with my help before I make that inquiry. Anyway, this will pretty much be a daily, nearly daily or on demand activity for me, but I will not have him living at my home and I will not be living at his home. When we reach that point I will find him a comfortable full care facility for his to reside in. While he does have some days that are better than others, he remains consistently unreliable pertaining to the topics I have described above. After looking around the internet and VA forums, I am not able to determine if he qualifies, and can be listed a dependent parent with the VA which would provide me about $112.00 monthly to me while I care for him. This would help to offset some of the expenses that I would incur while helping him thru this difficult portion of his long life. If someone can give me an idea where to look, or let me know if that's even a thing I would be grateful? Thank You so much.
  6. Good morning, everyone. First of all, I want to thank everyone for contributing to my question with a wide variety of perspectives and personal experience. My attorney's case manager finally returned my email where I asked: "In your recent message, you mentioned "....We are currently pending a Rating Decision in response to the Board Appeal filed 05/18/21...." (my assumption that we were making recent progress) Did the BVA reach out to your legal team or send you some kind of electronic or written notification that my claim was pending a Rating Decision?" The attorney's case manager replay was: "Your Board Appeal was filed on 05/18/2021 and we received fax confirmation on the same day. Board Appeals typically take longer to process than those sent to the Regional Office – the rough timeline is approximately 1 year pending." So it appears to me, that private VA law firms like mine, are as far behind as the BVA. Considering they filed the appeal seven months ago with same day fax confirmation, and I am just now being notified that my case is "..pending a Rating Decision...." Unfortunately, due to the recent email from my attorney's case manager, I allowed myself to believe that this seven-year journey was close to a conclusion. On the flip side, I suppose another year or so, is certainly nothing to complain about. Thank You again, I really appreciate the support of members on this forum.
  7. GBArmy, Absolutely sir. When I want to check the status of a given claim, I first look at disability % in EBenifits. If I see no change OR a change in percent, I then log into VA.GOV and look at the status of the specific claim. It's been my experience that if VA.GOV describes we agree with your appeal and have over-ruled the claim bla bla bla, but Ebenefits shows no percent change, the claim was approved but rated at zero %. I know, because that happend to me. Also, it's been my experience that Ebenifits updates the percent if any, about a day or two prior to VA.GOV describing the final status of the claim... for better or worse. And of course, "review your payment history" in VA.GOV is usually updated (if an increase was awarded - resulting in retro pay) about the same time as the disability percent in Ebenifits. I'll certainly be happy when this process eventually comes to a conclusion and that future Veterans will eventually have one portal that provides everything, they need to follow claims and related information.
  8. Since I have always been able to view documents that I have personally uploaded, in EB, I have never actually looked for them in VA.GOV.
  9. My attorney stated in the email that: "...pending a Rating Decision in response to the Board Appeal...", however, VA.GOV shows " Status: Your appeal is waiting to be sent to a judge."
  10. broncovet, That is very helpful. A few minutes before you replied, I called the 800 number, and Peggy could not tell me anything other than it's "waiting to be sent to a law judge". However, Peggy did mention the claim went to the DOCKET on 05/18/21. I forgot to mention the second part of the email from my attorney. Not that it matters but it is an interesting question. " If you have received any recent VA correspondence, please be sure to inform our office. If there have been any updates to your medications, contact information, etc., please send the updated information." I did have numerous mediation changes which I forwarded as requested. Thank you again.
  11. A few days ago, my attorney sent me this email on a PTSD claim I filed back in 2016 and have appealed to the BVA. After getting this email, I checked eBenifits & VA.gov and they still read, "waiting to be sent to a law judge". "I am reaching out to give an update on your case. We are currently pending a Rating Decision in response to the Board Appeal filed 05/18/21. If you have received any recent VA correspondence, please be sure to inform our office" Thank You
  12. Lemuel, Thank you for sharing your VA travel experience. It really interesting that the disabled veteran travel policy is so poorly written and undefined while the VA employee travel policy is actually decently written and well defined (much like a large corporations employee travel policy). If that were not the worse part, the Mileage Deductible that veterans pay and the 50% reduction veterans are supposed to get that VA Employee allowed food expense costs (which BTW has never been when I have submitted for it on my travel voucher). The response from the VA travel department employee simply said, we don't do that here. I have seen plenty of stupid $hit in my life, but who actually decided that any of this is even close to a good idea?
  13. Another possible contact: U.S. Department of Veterans AffairsOffice of Accountability and Whistleblower Protection810 Vermont Avenue, NW, Mail Stop 70Washington, D.C. 20420
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