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I put in two claims of PTSD one that was a sexual assault. The 2nd one happened while I was in Iceland as a dependent wife/Navy reserve. And the trauma I experienced there was if you can believe it worse than the sexual assault!!! When I tried to leave Iceland with my 2.5 yo son because my active duty husband and I were not getting along and I wanted to return to my home state until he was finished with his duty in Iceland. Then we could decide what we were going to do. I was scheduled to leave on a flight out. My son and I were signed up and had stayed at the Flight Center hotel where it is suggested all personal flying out the next morning should stay. Everything was fine and then an hour before we were to board my son and I were pulled aside and I was told that the Base Commander had pulled our tickets and that I was being ordered to stay. I was pissed and told the Legal Officer that came and told me this. That I had the right to leave, I had signed up weeks before and was approved for the flight. Why the hell was I being ordered to stay? He told me that the commander wanted my husband and I to come to some kind of agreement before I left Iceland with our son!!!! I returned back to my military housing after I spoke with the base commander who promised me that my husband would not be given leave or permission to leave Iceland either until this matter was settled. The next morning my husband asked if he could take our son on a picnic and I said sure no problem. Approximately 3 hours after he left a mutual friend came to the door and gave me a letter with pictures of my son and husband getting on an Icelandic Air flight out of Reykjavik, destination unknown. His commanding officer the Captain of the Naval Hospital had given him emergency leave. His friends had all chipped in to buy him and our son a plane ticket. My ACTIVE DUTY HUSBAND had kidnapped my son with the help of the NAVY!!!! That also most killed me!!! I had to have a congressman call the base commander to get me off that island. It took me over 70 days to find my son. They ordered my husband back right away but he went to Illinois and hid our son. So he returned to Iceland without our child. This trauma has had a life time affect on the level of love I have been able to give to my children. I didn't realize that is what had happened until I had my 2nd child and then my 3rd. My 2nd and 3rd child are 7 years apart. There was no way I could have anymore after the 3rd child and I realized this PTSD would forever affect the level of love I have for all the children in my life. That I will live forever knowing I will never again experience or feel that innocent, wholesome and untainted love I had for my son, before he was kidnapped by his father in Iceland with the help of the US NAVY!!!
I am not sure what the VA us gong to say about this claim, if they will in fact even considered it. But if it is rejected I will Appeal it as many times as it takes.. And if I have to take it to a Federal court then so be it. Because this claim above all others for PTSD isn't just about me, it's about my children too.
And if I had known previously to 2014 that the Navy was now taking responsibility for some of the Psychological Damage they have caused in the lives of American's that gave them so many years of their life serving their county. I most definitely would have filed back then!! And even as I write this (Please excuse me for sounding so angry) my heart breaks and I cry knowing what I lost for my kids and wondering if it affected them as they grew up.
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Well, ADodge, as a mom, I can say that what happened to you is right up there along with death of a child when it comes to a parent's worst nightmare. I feel for you, and I wish you the best. I don't
ADodge
I think it was around 1989 when I realized that I was extremely depressed, this was after I had finally found my son and gotten him back. And after my divorce and the birth of my second child. But o
ADodge
I put in two claims of PTSD one that was a sexual assault. The 2nd one happened while I was in Iceland as a dependent wife/Navy reserve. And the trauma I experienced there was if you can believe it
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