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IT'S A WONDERFUL LIFE

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On 4/24/2016 at 9:17 AM, waccamawwild said:

In general I agree with what all of you said. But it angers me to think of all the compensation I lost fighting the VA for service connection. One of my disabilities now service connected took twenty years when I had adequate medical evidence in the first place. With the VA mental fortitude is a must.

Looking back on things, the VA related delays are perhaps most frustrating to me in terms of monetary loss. I was forced to live on the proceeds of selling cash producing investments, and a Florida Condo for several years.  Regaining the equivalent in assets has been quite difficult. For example, the Condo has a real estate value? of a hundred thousand or so more than when I had to sell.  Loosing the income and appreciation of other assets was even more significant.

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I concur, the 15 years between rate increases due to VA downward pressure negatively effected my family's financial status.  I had to work every hour of overtime I could, just to support my family.  Even so, it was barely enough until I got some increases a year ago.

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I don't think anyone is not grateful for our compensation. But there are those of us that cannot do the things in life that we want. I cannot play with my young kids, do any vigorous activities with my family who is very active. I spent large amounts of time at the doctors missing my kids school activities. This list goes on for far too long.

So although I am thankful for the monetary help I get from the VA, this life holds very little joy outside of my family; and I look forward to glory far, far more than being in this world.

What the VA offers is monetary benefits and it is wonderful but it isn't the life a lot of us shout for joy about.

Kudos for you helping others and I truly am happy that your quality of life isn't shot, and I hope it never is. Enjoy it but don't bag on others because theirs is not to the level of yours and you think they are being sour.

 

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DDuck,

I agree with you completely.  When I was a kid, I couldn't understand why Dad wouldn't do many physical activities with us.  As a teen I learned why, it was due to injuries received in 'Nam, and throughout his 24 year enlistment.  Now that I am in same boat, I try to explain to my kids why Daddy can't do this or that. But wife is a different story...she wants what she wants how she wants it.

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  • 3 weeks later...

I was looking over my finances and it stood out:  I have not spent ONE cent of my comp pay from the VA...Between my SSI and my wife's income, we do fairly well.  I have banked the VA money for later.  It is a hefty sum right now and I am happy that our retirement won't be a big stressful mess.  I have personally witnessed people choosing between eating and buying their meds for the month.  That should not happen to any American.  It's disgusting.  I AND my wife get our meds from the VA (CHAMPUS VA) and will never have to decide to eat or get meds

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