My heart is breaking. I am a long time lurker but have never posted. My anxiety keeps me from reaching out, but I have found the strength to step out of my shell to say this: Please know, that the members of Hadit who work so tirelessly to help us all with your guidance, just how much you are greatly appreciated. This also goes for every other member of this virtual community. Carlie, you will be sorely missed. However, you left us all - and millions more veterans and their loved ones a gift - and that is your wisdom we can all continue to go back to and depend upon.