KnuckleDragger

We do support the children above and beyond the court order. Pay 100% of air fare to include an extra round trip ticket because the mom thinks the children will be abducted, even though children are 8 and 11. Every time kids visit we spend $250 plus because all clothes sent are way to small and not proper for the climate. During summer visits they're enrolled in summer camp 3X's a week, while we still pay her monthly support of $1100. In addition to camp, they have weekly horse riding lessons, skating lessons, 4-H camps, and karate. Anything extra for school we end up footing those bills as well. Oh, mom screwed up the insurance for a surgery and now expects us to pay the full $5k immediately. When with mom they have ZERO extracurricular activities. So as far as supporting children both emotionally and medically, we can't afford much more unless we want to loose everything.