Thank you to all who have commented and shared your opinions. I guess I am just frustrated because I was originally told by our VSO that the multiple myeloma is a presumptive disease, which means you don’t have to prove a connection to service. So he should get awarded 100% disability for his MM. However, since the VSO listed other health conditions on his application; heart, bladder ca, ptsd etc. ...we need to do the C & P exams due those items. I was able to reschedule the exams to private office instead of the Urgent Care they wanted him to go to, too many germs there. However, the closest offices are over an hour away. He is willing to go, but I just feel like I’ve been going down a rabbit hole in every step of dealing with the VA. I also found out from the scheduler that they suddenly have his DOB wrong , and it can’t be corrected for ten days. It has been right on everything before now. Of course all of his appointments are this week. Hoping this doesn’t screw anything up.