I read through the discussions and agree with the concerns and the understand reality of the definition as the Insurance department sees it (although I disagree with it as well).
The only scenario I see this working is as follows:
A military member retires, waits for the VA decision on his/her disability claim, receives the 100%P&T designation, immediately applies for S-DVI, gets approved for the insurance, applies for the waiver. Caveat: the online application allows for stating that you are not working due to XX factors, one of them being because of the disability and another being because you haven't found employment yet. I don't know how that works since I applied after I had a job already.
All this has to be done before starting a new job.
The only other scenario I see for myself is if I leave this job before the 6 year mark and reapply for the waiver based on unemployment, but then I would have paid for 6 years worth of premiums (aprox $2500), which is what I was trying to avoid
Thanks for the great discussion and best of luck on all (as we say in Tx, all y'all's) your efforts