Thank you both for your input. My husband is AF. He has been going to the doctor to be seen for only a couple of things at a time. It is hard to get him to go with a list as he is still concerned that it will cause him to be looked at closer for a medical discharge or something. I do not understand it and I do not try to. I feel if you are in pain you should be able to go and get it checked out. Just the civilian in me.
The tinnitus is in his SMR's. We went to speak with a VSO and she has been very helpful. She also has helped to get him to go to talk to Mental Health. He is VERY reluctant to talk to them but she helped to point out that a lot of things she feels could be related to his lack of sleep for all of the pain he has been in for so many years. He feels someone is always out to get him, grouchy, forgetful, etc. If we see nothing from a claim but he gets help this is all worth it.
She said he should get a C&P exam date within the next two months and then a decision about 3 - 4 months after that. We retire Jan 1.