Ironsoldier, from my experience its just a matter of time, endurance and follow-through on the veterans part to see what happens next. With the many decisions I've recieved, no two are exactly handled the same way, some triggered a C&P or not. My memory is old, but if I recall there is a decision matrix somewhere used by VA raters, RVSR (Rating Veteran Service Representative) or VSR (Veteran Service Representative). Side note, I used to call in for 'status updates' on my claim, learned IRIS email is fairly good and gave me a copy for the file. Other than that, Hadit helped me learn to wait while keeping important end dates in mind.
My feeling, I am sorry for your condition, sure glad you're getting care, even though you are young you are still a veteran with disabilities and if on SSDI, VA unemployability could really help you & loved ones. Honestly, sometimes I like the statement 'never say never', maybe in my dreams I return to the 'workplace' and all's good, even at my age.
I am feeling all will turn out okay and certainly hope comfort for you and yours,
Best to ya,
Cowgirl