Berta,
Thank you for your replies. I feel pretty ignorant about this whole process. I have had some assistance from my veteran service officer but I should have asked for more. With my C&P looming I wish I had just taken the time to learn more earlier. Basically I submitted a claim, have been going to counseling and crossing my fingers which is probably the worst thing I could have done. Now, I feel like calling the whole thing off since the VA doctor is acting like a gatekeeper. The letter did tell me what documentation I need. I will locate it and take another look at it.
Is there a way to suspend a claim? I would like to go into this with as little chance of having to appeal as possible. With such an impediment to my claim I feel like I'm going to a job interview with no pants on. Like no matter what else I submit there is one glaring problem that nullifies the rest.
I will contact my previous psychiatrist about an IMO or Nexus letter. I need to find out what the difference is and which would be better.
I do have a Nexus letter from my private clinical psychologist. I submitted SMRs, private MS letters, VA progress notes, a battalion history and letters to my previous wife that were good indicators of my experiences in Saudi Arabia. I was kind of stunned when her Nexus letter only commented on military sexual assault. I should not have turned it in, but I was panicking because it was one day prior to the 1 yr deadline. Now I feel like I have a nexus letter that defeats my claim for PTSD as a result of my service in the Gulf War. Any thoughts on that or can I ask her to add new evidence to her Nexus letter?
I received imminent danger pay, SW Asia medal with 2 stars. I have been hoping that is all they need for documented proof to fulfill the addendum "the veteran must have been located" either in or within close proximity of the "hostile military or terrorist activity"that produced the "fear of" this activity." I was at King Abdul Aziz Port/Port of Dammam from Dec 1990 to Aug 1991.
I will have to ask my veteran service officer about adding anxiety as an addendum.
Thanks for the advice and guidance and the news that NOVA challenged the new regs. The challenge only makes sense. I hope it succeeds and helps people.
I'm sorry you and your husband had to battle the VA for so long. From your last post it must have been a tremendous ordeal.