After 13 months I get the call and The VA Rep tells me I am rated 100% and ask me if I am still married to my Wife, and are my children still in the home? She then tells me that the VA has a proposal of incompetency, Wow!
she then tells me about the Brady Bill and ask me about my wife being the Fiduciary of my VA income, I said she is over the house anyway! not thinking what was at stake....or what was actually going on. She then ask me do I waive my rights to a hearing? I said as long as my wife is in charge of my money, she said I am releasing your monthly payment and retro now. I have called the VA nothing released and I was told I would get this on the 1st of Oct. 2011, so I guess she lied to get me to waive my rights, I am wondering if a Vet is considered Incompetent how can they make an informed decision like this without proper understanding or with someone present?
I did in fact recieve the actual you are Incompetent letter today and we will inform you of a fiduciary at a later date... I have called and tried to find out where my money is she promised nothing! I am in the process of sending them a NOD and will go as far as needed to get this turned around..
I was asked one simple question, Do you handle you finances? no, my wife does... boom! all hell breaks loose, now I am not capable of paying a simple bill, I guess I should not even be able to finish raising my kids or paying for MY house I own and have paid for without the VA! No help from the VA and my Credit is very good, I can buy two homes at one time and I owe none of it to the VA, so what are they going to do that I have not been doing to this point in my life to make my life better? nothing! they are making it worse and when I say worse I mean it,,, I will not go back to the VA for any treatment after this, because of the lies that one woman has told me and the C&P exam that took one question and tried too ruin a families life... I do not drink, Smoke, Gamble and have never committed a crime and now I feel like a retarded criminal!!!! Thanks VA... These are my feelings and my experiences and not everyone will go through this type injustice, and it is exactly an injustice.