Eddie6464 Posted December 30, 2011 Share Posted December 30, 2011 im 10% right wrist 20% right shoulder 20% left shoulder 50% anxiety/depression and im horribly struggling at work with chronic pain and extreme anxiety and depression with constant thoughts of suicide. should i put in for unemploybility... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJBB62 Posted December 31, 2011 Share Posted December 31, 2011 thank you all for your advice...I really do need help and will turn myself in to mental health. Im not safe to anyone specially myself but im truely a nice guy i just cant bare the chronic pain 24hr a day and i feel useless to my family specially my 8 yr old daugther who i can carry or play with or even enjoy because i am in such a nasty mood. i wanna be normal one day again like i use to be because im a hard worker thats been holding a good job since i got discharge and dont wanna to give up but im really on my last days right on the edge of destruction. its devastating think of intentionally driving off the road and killing myself so at least i dont look like a coward hanging my self but god knows whats in store for me. good night Eddie, Please go get the help you need right away so you can be that person you use to be, If your not going to do it for yourself do it for your Beautiful Daughter, She needs her Daddy. Listen Brother we are all here for you and some of us have been in your situation and are afraid to ask for help, but you have to take that step to be able to live a normal life again. So Please make the Call and do the right thing for your Family. NJ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gulfvet45 Posted January 2, 2012 Share Posted January 2, 2012 Go and check into the VA and get some help ASAP!!! After 21 days there you will get the temp 100%, stay there until you feel better or have the tools you need. If the Dr.s think you should not work, file for the increase and IU. im 10% right wrist 20% right shoulder 20% left shoulder 50% anxiety/depression and im horribly struggling at work with chronic pain and extreme anxiety and depression with constant thoughts of suicide. should i put in for unemploybility... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Founder Tbird Posted January 3, 2012 Founder Share Posted January 3, 2012 If you can drive go to the VA emergency room and tell them you are suicidal. If you can't drive or are not safe to drive call 911 tell them you are suicidal ask to be taken to the VA, if the VA diverts the ambulance don't worry the hospital will transfer you to the VA as soon as they can you can tell them that is where you need to go. Do not wait another day, another moment, another second on this do it and do it now, you must for your daughter, for your wife, for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
halos2 Posted January 3, 2012 Share Posted January 3, 2012 Never give up or give in! You are valuable and your family needs you! Suicide is not the answer. Your feelings and issues can be dealt with. You cannot rationally make any decisions currently so follow the advice of others here GO TO THE HOSPITAL! ASAP! GO NOW!! Survivors of suicide victims NEVER recover..so don't do it and think what it would do to your family! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJBB62 Posted January 4, 2012 Share Posted January 4, 2012 Has anyone heard from Eddie!!! NJ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Founder Tbird Posted January 4, 2012 Founder Share Posted January 4, 2012 Nothing yet, I am hoping he took our advice and went to the hospital. Has anyone heard from Eddie!!! NJ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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im 10% right wrist
20% right shoulder
20% left shoulder
50% anxiety/depression
and im horribly struggling at work with chronic pain and extreme anxiety and depression with constant thoughts of suicide. should i put in for unemploybility...
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