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Being a Delaware resident I have been finding it extremely hard to afford childcare while I go to my appointments now they want to send me for 12 hours a week if so their is no way to afford daycare in this area with my va disability and SSdI as my budget even with my wife working PT. So I reached out to the VA they said they can’t help and reached out to the whoever since I’m a Poly trauma patient there can’t remeber think it was the chaplain. But they said they have no idea So I’m forced to bring two kids two to three times a week to these appointments trying to avoid them being sick they said reach out to the state social services. I just received notice I was denied services even after wrote in a letter he needed me to be in treatment 12 hours a week and needed childcare part time. The denial stated nothing about my doctor special need said our income was too much my VA disability was used against me as my income and they should no deductions like my mortgage I can fight this see how long it takes could take months, but by the time I done with the fight it could be a year and then my oldest will be in public school. Does this sound right using my disability as income for state benefits? It’s very aggravating barely getting by paying a mortgage and being told I make to much, as if being disabled doesn’t have medical costs with it which aren’t even taken into account not even food was counted as being a need for. The family of four just utilities and the mortgage, good thing I go to church with my stated districts representative...

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20 minutes ago, seminoles said:

I thought your wife was also your caregiver? Does she not receive income for that as well?

No she doesn't I was told that me being well enough to drive five minutes to my doctors appointments makes me not eligible it’s saved for more worse of vets of TBIs. I’m working on my SMC L claim currently with my primary doctor who is filling it out and I’ll have it next week. My other doctor who filled out the 21-2680 my psychiatrist filled out was outdated and on it says it expired in May 2018 at the top my psychiatrist told me he didn’t know what he was doing and just copied from my C and P they. Sent me too the prior month for aid and attendance. Annoyed I went to the VA.gov got the current and walked it to my primary doctor who said he knew how to fill it out. If I had one or the other I would be comfortable again either the SMC L or the caregiver for my wife? I have been told time after time if I drive on my own I don’t rate caregiver when i asked the program manager at the VA hospital, so never applied at the hospital had anyone had anything to to say about that not sure exactly what the criteria is, she gave my wife a relaxation CD to listen too and that’s all.

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16 minutes ago, jfrei said:

No she doesn't I was told that me being well enough to drive five minutes to my doctors appointments makes me not eligible it’s saved for more worse of vets of TBIs. I’m working on my SMC L claim currently with my primary doctor who is filling it out and I’ll have it next week. My other doctor who filled out the 21-2680 my psychiatrist filled out was outdated and on it says it expired in May 2018 at the top my psychiatrist told me he didn’t know what he was doing and just copied from my C and P they. Sent me too the prior month for aid and attendance. Annoyed I went to the VA.gov got the current and walked it to my primary doctor who said he knew how to fill it out. If I had one or the other I would be comfortable again either the SMC L or the caregiver for my wife? I have been told time after time if I drive on my own I don’t rate caregiver when i asked the program manager at the VA hospital, so never applied at the hospital had anyone had anything to to say about that not sure exactly what the criteria is, she gave my wife a relaxation CD to listen too and that’s all.

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caregiver program is so screwed up, seriously........if they actually implemented that program consistently from one location to another, I would be raising hell.  I know I qualify, and I can drive.  Driving isn't a disqualifying factor at all, dude I know was on Quest for Kona and his wife is paid at tier 3!

 

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WTF just filled out the application never saw it until tonight soo it says send it to Georgia which may take awhile to implement or expedite it by hand delivery to my hospital. Wish there was a way to submit it on ebenefits hate seeing people that piss me off. Might just go tomorrow to get a actual denial to see how they determine the decision with this Program... not sure which I should do?

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