He is not very forthcoming with information so I'm just working with the bits and pieces he has mentioned here and there. I'm sorry if it's not correct or is just partial information. He is old school, he doesn't like to talk about his issues. The info that I have is that he set up an appt with the va to be evaluated last year. He did the evaluation and they gave him 45%. I thought it seemed a little off as well because I myself have gone through the process (granted I was active when I did). I told him he needs to go back and press the issue.
I agree with you that it is ultimately up to him but he has a lot of issues and he recently was diagnosed with Parkinson so he has his good Days and his bad days. Sometimes he is eager to move forward and other days he just seems to lose the will to do anything. It's not because he is lazy, Parkinson takes a toll. I am just trying to aid the process to make it easier on him.
I appreciate all the help.