Old posts, but it's been resurrected now. hahaha
I do not support harming another Veteran. However, I also do not support those who lie to get ratings.
When I was injured, my parents listened to a older friend who was 100%. He kept telling them I was getting a big check from the VA when in reality I was only awarded two 10% ratings, carried over from the Medical Board. That carry-over mistake prevented me from applying for TDIU and started the decade-long fight. I knew my spinal injury was not a 100% injury, but it sure wasn't a 10% either. Finally about 8 years into the VA appeal process, I had it with all the crap from people around me who assumed I was getting all this money from the VA. People only saw me on good days, because on bad days I couldn't move, much less get out and visit. My parents were stunned when I told them that what I get from the VA is deducted from my retirement. But that's not really any of their business anyway. That their friend's check (rating) was more likely based on him having cancer, not cause he sprained an ankle and arm in a chopper landing and had a few other minor old-age things. They really got the point when I mentioned that he worked in construction for 30 years AFTER that landing, so his ankle and arm must have been ok. My aunt was one of the worst, saying how a in-law niece gets this and that and there's nothing wrong with the niece, not so much as a stubbed toe. I couldn't say that her thing may have been sexual trauma.....that's her story to tell or not. I just felt bad that she has to listen to all the jabs and maybe doesn't want everyone to know her situation.
My point is that everyone's story is different. And how that story affects us may be different. You don't know til you live with the person and see them on goods days and bad.
I'm crippled with a spinal injury, walk with a cane, facing a wheelchair due to nerve damage, have about 14 other injuries from on duty, in the MTRs (not football games or MC accidents) and am still fighting for FAIR ratings after 10 years. Spinal injury should be a 40-60%. Some are a FAIR 20%, 10%, or even 0%, but should be SC'd. How do I know this? The VASRD. It is very easy to understand where you rate. Work is out unless I can employ myself and work at my pace and limitations, but it will never amount to making a living. Shoot, even SSA job vocational specialist could not place me in a position and immediately approved SSDI. I just keep trying to get the VA to recognize that for consideration.
But that doesn't mean I need to turn in the guys who twirling a cane like Fred Astaire walking through the VA parking lot then hobbling when he nears the door, asking for a wheel chair. I feel sorry for them, lacking the conscious to be honest and honorable.
Just remember that we have a common interest that those who didn't serve can't understand. Yes, that includes the majority of the VA employees..... who think they understand. hahaha again