Infentrad

I really don’t know, Once I talk more with my lawyer, than I ill brig you guys up to speed

Thanks buddy!!! That is what I am saying about this whole deal, it has really dug into me and my families personal life… My wife and I are fighting more because she doesn’t understand how all this could have happened, and my daughter has to see all of this going on its just crap! I didn’t even think about the BBB’s side of this whole mess… I mean really do they not monitor what their customers are posting? If it’s all automated than they have a serious glitch in their systems. I am going to ask my lawyer about this. I feel that I need to call the Attorney General so I can get some results. Can you guys believe that they still haven’t suspended her and to boot I ran into her the day I stated my fear of doing so? She knew as well what was going on by then because she was just as suppressed as I was to see her. I just about had a heart attack on the spot my anxiety reached a whole new level that day that I have never experienced.

It’s a big business for Uncle Sam to keep drugs illegal. Half the DEA business comes from marijuana busts.

I do... That is how I found out about it, becasue I receved it in the mail

It was the BBB.

That’s great I would love to have advice from her if possible

I ment to say that my progress has regressed

Before all of this I had hope for my future and my PTSD, feeling good about my new medication, In other words a light at the end of the tunnel. Now I feel as if all I did, all the progress is not regressed and its hard not to blame your self for it…

You’re without a doubt right! It’s just hard from my side to feel good about this because I’m scared and not afraid to admit it. I just keep thinking of how long this is going to take to clear up and how much stress it is going to put on me and my family And what if the VA tears me apart? Nothing is going to repair the amount of anguish I will go through

The attorney and I are meeting up Tuesday, to get things kicked off; we are going to investigate it for about 3 months before we move forward. We are going to take the evidence and shop around for a bigger firm’s interest in it for civil rights case. I just know that, I have in writing what she told the BBB and that was my disability, and a habit that doesn’t even exist, I’m getting more pissed off just thinking about it.

Is she a LPN/LVN or an RN?... She is an RN

Sorry guys I was finally able to relax a bit with my family! I went on a trip out to do some camping for the night, and although this is the only thing on my mind I was able to kick back and enjoy the weather. Allow me to say that I am so thankful that you guys are taking this to heart. All of this has my mind just going crazy, and I am a little overwhelmed by the whole deal, and know that it will all be over (someday). This is exactly what I was looking for, and that was avenues of options. I don't want to be that guy that gets stepped on, and no force behind me. I can't tell you how bad this has changed my life. I don't want to compare it to being raped in any way, but I can feel the violation! It's amazing how things start to affect you gradually, and then you wake up and its as if a truck smacked your brain! I see guys may age (I am 27) having fun and doing things young guys enjoy and my mind is rapped around bullsh** I can t control. Not to get you all down on a positive note, I understand that I have a golden opportunity to make a difference for the other people out that have been violated! I will make my self well known through out the VA. I am however so paranoid that they are going to tear me apart… I don't know why I feel this way, but its almost as if they are looking in my folder right now analyzing, scheming, and trying to figure out ways to knock me sown. I have been waking up supper paranoid like I'm being watched. This is really messing with my mind I just want it all to stop.

Thank you all for the fast responses. Yes I am dealing with the patient advocate right now, right now, and I guess what scares me the most is that I haven't seen a case in the VA like this one yet… I also am affrade to be in the public eye. I don't want to get involved and have my service picked apart by a court house full of fat pocket lawyers… I didn't call the police because I am embarrassed that I allowed this to go on. This is a Fifty year old lady, and I am a young infantry man that did time in Iraq, I guess I don't want to be viewed as a week person, although the truth is I am so vulnerable right now. I keep just thinking that had I just been home that this would not have happened. I also keep having dreams of her walking in not knowing I am home and I catch her, and protect my house if you know what I mean. Don't get me wrong I would never hurt a lady, but I just feel so violated because of the whole situations…

I have been researching this for sometime now and haven't even found anything close to this type of lawsuit online. I already have a lawyer so that part is already taken care of. I suffer from 30% PTSD at this time. I served in OIF1. I have been seeing a physiologist at the VA for 5 years every week on Tuesday. I have been working forever on trying to figure out a better way to live with my PTSD. I work as a contractor in my everyday life supporting my family and a nice chunk of bills. One day I get a call from a lady telling me that she wants some work done on her house and like the business man I am I get right on it, through the talks and all I get the job. Shortly after talking to the lady she tells me that she is a nurse for the VA and me being proud of what I have done tell her that I am a disabled vet, and would like to show my gratitude for the VA and give her a slamming deal on the project. I start doing the job and it gets a little bumpy along the way. One of the deals was that she had to purchase all the materials or it would hold me up and the time frame that I expressed to her wouldn't be possible. So that's exactly what happened she procrastinates and I slow way down. Although we were having problems I kept my professionalism, and maintained myself. I continued to give the customer the "red carpet" treatment and dealt with it. Well a few weeks down the road she mentions to me that she looked up my medical records and proceeded to ask me if I didn't mind. I was in shock, but didn't realize what she had just told me. I sat on it for a couple of days and it really started to sink in, and I started to think to myself "man fear, every problem, everything that has been on my mind bothering me for the past five years has just been compromised!" So after a month of work and problems I manage to finish the job, but having much anxiety, I realize the best thing to do is go to the VA and tell them what has happened to me with this customer. I go to the VA and tell my Physiologist what has happened, and tell her that I am freaking out now because the day knows were I live (she just shows up to my house about a week after the job is completed.). I tell my physiologist that I don't want her to find out about the investigation till I have solid evidence that she did what she did to me.. My physiologist agrees that this would be the best thing to do, and reports all the info to the right people. A few day later I come home and my neighbor tells me that some "lady was snooping around my yard entered the garage, and then proceeded to go into my back door that was unlocked because I have a big pit bull that should have not let her in but some how she managed anyway. He then told me I pulled up and that is when he spotted the lady leaving a side door in a hurry because she noticed I hade returned. When he described her I knew who it was and was ANGRY! So again I tell the VA this info and it just adds to the evidence. The lady gives me a call and tells me she is filling a report with a cretin credible agency telling them that I took to long to finish the job… So despite the rest of the stuff she said in it one thing really… Really… REALLY pissed me off and this is what she stated "Job was finally completed by a subcontractor and key returned. He did not give me any money back but I did give him his tools that he left behind. Because of my filing this report, he has gone to my place of work and has made many false accusations in an attempt to get me fired. I contend that he had no business acumen and while he may know how to tile, he doesn't know how to run a business. He suffers from PTSD and drinks alcohol to excess and that was one of the reasons he didn't show up to work. If I lose my job it will be because of him! I would be happy to avert anyone else from hiring him at all costs." Beyond all the other crap that she pulled, are you kidding me she might as well kiss her own a$$ good buy forever as a nurse. You can call me any name in the book, or even tell me I'm a crummy contractor, but you want to talk about how illegal this was, someone tell me what you think, this is partial parts of the story right now I wish I could give more information but really not going to be able to till this case is sorted out. I know its going to be big because what this lady did to me and my family through this is unjust. Notice she knows about the investigation already? Yeah, so, so much for confidentiality there. All I wanted to do was give back to somebody that I had appreciation for, and know I am going through a lot of crap! Not only am I sour about this whole deal, but I can honestly say that I am super depressed, cant sleep and, my wife are having some serious problems over this whole deal. I just want things back to normal and understand that isn't going to happen… I don't know what else to do I am working with a really good lawyer and hope he can sort it out for me. I figure this is going to make some national news soon. BTW I never told her in my own words that I had PTSD, she receved this info from my med records Thanks for reading please take it easy on me, I'm new to this type of stress.