Thank all of you for all of your advice. That's a lot of good information.
I do go to the VA doctor's regularly - never miss an appointment.
The only thing I changed was neurology... my VA psychologist found a civilian neurologist to work with since the VA wasn't helpful. Since then, they have had to increase my medication and my psychiatrist writes for control of seizures on the bottles. The neurologist at the VA said nothing was wrong after an EEG and MRI. The outside neurologist found a spot on my brain conducting an MRI. She's conducting a sleep study soon to figure out my rem or seizure issue giving me sleep problems.
I have a psychologist at the VA working with me on the sleep in through some type of cbt program where you record how you sleep while you're trying to sleep (makes no sense). I was sent to him for help with nightmares but he says he really can't do that, just try to help my sleep pattern to maybe help the seizures.
Also, I have a civilian psychologist who I worked with at the VA who moved to private practice. She's starting to work with me on PTSD as asked by my psychologist at the VA.
I haven't been able to consistently work since I was discharged and now I can't work at all. I did ask my psychologist if I'm ever going to get better and she said she really doesn't know, she thinks they can maybe make me function a little better.
I'll be sure to bring the TDIU with my psychiatrist at the VA. It has been a whole year since my grand mal seizure and things have progressively gotten worse.
I know this is all a mess. The connection will the biggest part and the Army did a really good job of gutting my files.
Even though there aren't many notes on my medical condition - my doctors at the VA couldn't get them - there are certain things in a few of my commanders notes that could denote seizures or brain trauma such as me reporting vision changes, them having to put me on sleep medication, and such... I need to look through that again. I wouldn't have thought of those small notes if it wasn't for all of you!
I am very thankful for all of your help. You're making me feel like I'm taking the proper steps to protect myself.
And you all seem right, if I don't make some type of step they certainly will.
THANK ALL OF YOU AGAIN!!!