First off, I'm so sorry to hear about your wife. My heart goes out to you and your family.
My wife is a former Medical Assistant at Kaiser and my caregiver with the VA Caregiver Program.
I don't have space-outs but I do have episodes where I don't realize where I am or remember how I got there. But I do snap out of it and say, "Nooooow I remember!". Then I continue my day.
My wife does my meds from ordering and administering, as well as food prep. I burned my parent's kitchen. lol. Pretty much keeps me out of danger.
I do not have representation yet. Depending on some outcomes, it may be beneficial.
I'm wondering if I should regret simply applying for an increase. Now that they mention SMC and A&A as a possible result.