I need help! As of 2018, my ex-wife filed for an apportionment and surprisingly got awarded it. I tried to appeal it but still got denied. I don't even know HOW she managed that considering the child support she was already receiving from me through our lovely California court system. She was married, had a job and multiple side jobs so she was not going through hardship whatsoever. Fast forward 3 years later, she is still receiving it. We have 50/50 custody and everything financially/medically is split. I've asked her to stop the apportionment but then Covid hit and she was jobless by choice. She would turn down jobs because she wouldn't make more than her previous job ( not my problem, but okay ) She said to check back in when she found a job. 3 months go by and I checked back in finally she just said No! She will not stop the apportionment because it took her too long to be granted it.
I've tried calling the VA but I keep on getting the run around. That I would need a court order to file. Has anyone else been through this process? Any help would be appreciated.
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Woodyb84
Hi there,
I need help! As of 2018, my ex-wife filed for an apportionment and surprisingly got awarded it. I tried to appeal it but still got denied. I don't even know HOW she managed that considering the child support she was already receiving from me through our lovely California court system. She was married, had a job and multiple side jobs so she was not going through hardship whatsoever. Fast forward 3 years later, she is still receiving it. We have 50/50 custody and everything financially/medically is split. I've asked her to stop the apportionment but then Covid hit and she was jobless by choice. She would turn down jobs because she wouldn't make more than her previous job ( not my problem, but okay ) She said to check back in when she found a job. 3 months go by and I checked back in finally she just said No! She will not stop the apportionment because it took her too long to be granted it.
I've tried calling the VA but I keep on getting the run around. That I would need a court order to file. Has anyone else been through this process? Any help would be appreciated.
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Unfortunately, you are barking up the wrong tree. You need to "stop the apportionment" through the courts, not VA. Once she gets a "court ordered" child support, she can take that to VA and th
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