I dropped of the form for Aid & Attendence on April 9th when I had an appointment for my PCP.
I will be bouncing between two issues here as they are "Inexplicably Intertwined" so bear with me.
I even dropped off copies of the C&P for Aid and Attendence and a few other materials describing what they want in the forms.
Well...... I did get the form back filled out and signed. So I guess I got part of what I wanted.
But, isn't there always a but?....
Every single section where the form asks the doctor to be very specific about limitations, fine motor skills, grasp, ect. he just wrote very non detailed information. For example under the restrictions for upper extremities:
"Veterans can use hands but has difficulty"
Well umm ok so what the he77 does that mean? Not very descriptive.
Then to top off the molded cake with some nice sour frosting, under the section he was supposed to list conditions I have, he listed them, and right next to Depression he writes:
"Depression - Veteran has trouble dealing with his own affairs"
What the F*&^ is that BS?
No doctor, not my cardiologist, not my hospice doctor, not my other doctors, not even the three VA Mental Health Doctors have ever even peeped anything about this.
Actually all three of my Mental Health Doctors have specifically stated in the records multiple times that I am able to handle my own affairs.
I think this doc did this to get back at me. Its a long story, but we have been at odds for over a year almost since he has been my PCP. Ever since the first appointment wiht him, he rushes me out before I can talk about anything I need to have address, doesn't matter if its a current or new condition. He says he can not waste all his time on one vet, he has other vets that need him also and he wants to be fair. The VA have been dragging their feet about getting me another doctor, I found out today, that I might get to get another doctor but it will require a clinic move and further drive just to get one, but its gonna be worth it. This doctor stops me in the middle of my sentences every visit I have with him and says ok see ya come back in six months. He NEVER in over a year has ever resolved all my concerns during a visit, actually he usually doesnt have time to hear them before I am forced to leave. Basically when I goto the appointment, he will start in on his own agenda and do and talk about what he wants then its over. I complain to the other doctors and even the patient advocate nad they are like tell him to slow down and refuse to leave until your done, but he just says see ya in six months then walks away. My son called the VAMC that handles this clinic and filed a complaint with the director. Since that time, the doctor has been less confrontational, but he NEVER returns my calls, NEVER returns the calls of other doctors trying to reach him concerning my case, he even sat on my Hospice Orders for a few days until someone from hospice called the main VAMC to complain that he wasn't responding.
But this is insane, a vet should not have to deal with a doctor that he feels has no interest in his well being. I absolutly feel that he has no cencern for my wellbeing since the first time I had to complain on him, and probably before that as I had to complain.
Ok venting is over. Now anyone have an opinion?
Should I submit these Aid and Attendence forms? They basically say in a nutshell that I can not walk unassisted, and that I need constant care, but they are not descriptive enough I think. Also with his note they will try to railroad me into a incompetency issue.
Or should I send them in knowing that my Mental Health Doctors enter into the computer every month that I can handle my own affairs and just prey for the best?
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I dropped of the form for Aid & Attendence on April 9th when I had an appointment for my PCP.
I will be bouncing between two issues here as they are "Inexplicably Intertwined" so bear with me.
I even dropped off copies of the C&P for Aid and Attendence and a few other materials describing what they want in the forms.
Well...... I did get the form back filled out and signed. So I guess I got part of what I wanted.
But, isn't there always a but?....
Every single section where the form asks the doctor to be very specific about limitations, fine motor skills, grasp, ect. he just wrote very non detailed information. For example under the restrictions for upper extremities:
"Veterans can use hands but has difficulty"
Well umm ok so what the he77 does that mean? Not very descriptive.
Then to top off the molded cake with some nice sour frosting, under the section he was supposed to list conditions I have, he listed them, and right next to Depression he writes:
"Depression - Veteran has trouble dealing with his own affairs"
What the F*&^ is that BS?
No doctor, not my cardiologist, not my hospice doctor, not my other doctors, not even the three VA Mental Health Doctors have ever even peeped anything about this.
Actually all three of my Mental Health Doctors have specifically stated in the records multiple times that I am able to handle my own affairs.
I think this doc did this to get back at me. Its a long story, but we have been at odds for over a year almost since he has been my PCP. Ever since the first appointment wiht him, he rushes me out before I can talk about anything I need to have address, doesn't matter if its a current or new condition. He says he can not waste all his time on one vet, he has other vets that need him also and he wants to be fair. The VA have been dragging their feet about getting me another doctor, I found out today, that I might get to get another doctor but it will require a clinic move and further drive just to get one, but its gonna be worth it. This doctor stops me in the middle of my sentences every visit I have with him and says ok see ya come back in six months. He NEVER in over a year has ever resolved all my concerns during a visit, actually he usually doesnt have time to hear them before I am forced to leave. Basically when I goto the appointment, he will start in on his own agenda and do and talk about what he wants then its over. I complain to the other doctors and even the patient advocate nad they are like tell him to slow down and refuse to leave until your done, but he just says see ya in six months then walks away. My son called the VAMC that handles this clinic and filed a complaint with the director. Since that time, the doctor has been less confrontational, but he NEVER returns my calls, NEVER returns the calls of other doctors trying to reach him concerning my case, he even sat on my Hospice Orders for a few days until someone from hospice called the main VAMC to complain that he wasn't responding.
But this is insane, a vet should not have to deal with a doctor that he feels has no interest in his well being. I absolutly feel that he has no cencern for my wellbeing since the first time I had to complain on him, and probably before that as I had to complain.
Ok venting is over. Now anyone have an opinion?
Should I submit these Aid and Attendence forms? They basically say in a nutshell that I can not walk unassisted, and that I need constant care, but they are not descriptive enough I think. Also with his note they will try to railroad me into a incompetency issue.
Or should I send them in knowing that my Mental Health Doctors enter into the computer every month that I can handle my own affairs and just prey for the best?
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