Incompetent By Va Standards

[bama01]

After 13 months I get the call and The VA Rep tells me I am rated 100% and ask me if I am still married to my Wife, and are my children still in the home? She then tells me that the VA has a proposal of incompetency, Wow!

she then tells me about the Brady Bill and ask me about my wife being the Fiduciary of my VA income, I said she is over the house anyway! not thinking what was at stake....or what was actually going on. She then ask me do I waive my rights to a hearing? I said as long as my wife is in charge of my money, she said I am releasing your monthly payment and retro now. I have called the VA nothing released and I was told I would get this on the 1st of Oct. 2011, so I guess she lied to get me to waive my rights, I am wondering if a Vet is considered Incompetent how can they make an informed decision like this without proper understanding or with someone present?

I did in fact recieve the actual you are Incompetent letter today and we will inform you of a fiduciary at a later date... I have called and tried to find out where my money is she promised nothing! I am in the process of sending them a NOD and will go as far as needed to get this turned around..

I was asked one simple question, Do you handle you finances? no, my wife does... boom! all hell breaks loose, now I am not capable of paying a simple bill, I guess I should not even be able to finish raising my kids or paying for MY house I own and have paid for without the VA! No help from the VA and my Credit is very good, I can buy two homes at one time and I owe none of it to the VA, so what are they going to do that I have not been doing to this point in my life to make my life better? nothing! they are making it worse and when I say worse I mean it,,, I will not go back to the VA for any treatment after this, because of the lies that one woman has told me and the C&P exam that took one question and tried too ruin a families life... I do not drink, Smoke, Gamble and have never committed a crime and now I feel like a retarded criminal!!!! Thanks VA... These are my feelings and my experiences and not everyone will go through this type injustice, and it is exactly an injustice.

Edited September 30, 2011 by bama01

[hulamatt]

Mom's mine. Funny how the I am incompetent with the VA, but the trial court found me competent. Oh well. When I ask for P and T I will use the incompetent ruling as a factor, maybe it will hold some weight.

trial court?

[bakerkd]

Incompetent By Va Standards. I had to laugh when I read the title of the thread. Pot calling Kettle......come in kettle