A couple of months ago I looked up the regs -- and it said that the Va payment for the month of death is a right of the widow.
I got the VA letter - and it said to call the tool-free number - so I did.
I was told that I had to send in a statement of claim asking to be allowed to keep the February payment -and that it NOT be reclaimed.
I have since closed my joint bank account with my husband. (AT&T was taking money out, but was not authorized to do so - and was not even applying it to our phone bill - so who knows who authorized them to take it out -or where it was going -- I just closed the account - and still have to sort things out with AT&T -which is hard because the fact they are taking money out of OUR bank account is NOT recorded to OUR phone bill - so I haven't found anyone to trace it yet).
Anyway - I Have a personal account with the same bank - which I opened after my husband's death.
Today I called to ask why my avaliable amount is reduced by $225..
The VA has a hold on it. Since our joint account is no longer open - the VA is reclaiming the payment for the month of death from MY account.
Geez!!
It is amazing how fast they can do THAT!!
Too bad they can't pay that fast....
And they wasted MY time and THEIR time - sending me letters telling me to call - and answering my call - and telling me what to do to keep the funds --if they were going to take them back and make me send in another claim to add to their backlog to get the $225 back.
I will have to say it is NOT just the VA --
I have gotten the run-around from Social Security (who - since my son is disabled (autism) --and on SSI - reduced his SSI benefits by 1/3 because he was living with us and receiving support from my husband -- but when he applied for SSD on my husband's record denied him -- because he was not living with my husband or receving support from him (????) The same dang office -- and one cuts his benefits because of my husband's support and one denied him benefits because my husband wasn't supporting him..., the mortgage company, the credit card company who took two months to close my husband's account while fraudulent charges were being added to his card, --well -- pretty much everyone...
Again, it is the no acountability issue -- a world full of toll free numbers in which no one is responsible for what they tell you - so they just tell you anything.
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A couple of months ago I looked up the regs -- and it said that the Va payment for the month of death is a right of the widow.
I got the VA letter - and it said to call the tool-free number - so I did.
I was told that I had to send in a statement of claim asking to be allowed to keep the February payment -and that it NOT be reclaimed.
I have since closed my joint bank account with my husband. (AT&T was taking money out, but was not authorized to do so - and was not even applying it to our phone bill - so who knows who authorized them to take it out -or where it was going -- I just closed the account - and still have to sort things out with AT&T -which is hard because the fact they are taking money out of OUR bank account is NOT recorded to OUR phone bill - so I haven't found anyone to trace it yet).
Anyway - I Have a personal account with the same bank - which I opened after my husband's death.
Today I called to ask why my avaliable amount is reduced by $225..
The VA has a hold on it. Since our joint account is no longer open - the VA is reclaiming the payment for the month of death from MY account.
Geez!!
It is amazing how fast they can do THAT!!
Too bad they can't pay that fast....
And they wasted MY time and THEIR time - sending me letters telling me to call - and answering my call - and telling me what to do to keep the funds --if they were going to take them back and make me send in another claim to add to their backlog to get the $225 back.
I will have to say it is NOT just the VA --
I have gotten the run-around from Social Security (who - since my son is disabled (autism) --and on SSI - reduced his SSI benefits by 1/3 because he was living with us and receiving support from my husband -- but when he applied for SSD on my husband's record denied him -- because he was not living with my husband or receving support from him (????) The same dang office -- and one cuts his benefits because of my husband's support and one denied him benefits because my husband wasn't supporting him..., the mortgage company, the credit card company who took two months to close my husband's account while fraudulent charges were being added to his card, --well -- pretty much everyone...
Again, it is the no acountability issue -- a world full of toll free numbers in which no one is responsible for what they tell you - so they just tell you anything.
I am tired........
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