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My father just applied for A&A and should get it Va is coming to the house to care for him every few weeks my ? is does my mother rate this also or does she have to wait till he passes she was not in service but is caring for him?

GySgt USMC Retired 1980-2001 Food Services, Recruiter, Security Forces

20% residuals right shoulder

10% tinnitus

40% fibromyalgia

10% lipomas

20% lumbar spondylosis and degenerative disk disease

10% status post cholecystectomy with scars

10% right knee patellofemoral syndrome

10% left knee patellofemoral syndrome

50% anxiety disorder

20% chronic fatigue syndrome

10% keratoconus

30% gastritus claimed as heartburn with gerd, hiatal hernia and baret's esophagus

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A spouse would not get A&A unless there was a true need for assistance from another. The veteran would have to apply for it.

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I found out my answer it is the Death Pension when my father passes

GySgt USMC Retired 1980-2001 Food Services, Recruiter, Security Forces

20% residuals right shoulder

10% tinnitus

40% fibromyalgia

10% lipomas

20% lumbar spondylosis and degenerative disk disease

10% status post cholecystectomy with scars

10% right knee patellofemoral syndrome

10% left knee patellofemoral syndrome

50% anxiety disorder

20% chronic fatigue syndrome

10% keratoconus

30% gastritus claimed as heartburn with gerd, hiatal hernia and baret's esophagus

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I found out my answer it is the Death Pension when my father passes

Yes but it is means tested and A&A is not automatic the spouse must still have a need. And as has been said if your mother is taking care of your father she now,... then how would she qualify?

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My 85 year old father was approved for aide and attendance for 384.00 monthly on June 13 this year The VA received the paperwork on 31 may so 13 days for approval was fast we did everything you said on the site to do, return receipt, letter requesting speedy approval we did it all thank you. We filed for the year prior retro but heard nothing yet does that take more time? We forgot to ask to expedite due to age.

SO here are some questions we have now

1. Does the VA send the yearly question sheet to us to make sure he still qualifies?

2. How is the payment amount decided? 384.00 seems low both mom and dad get social security and dad has a small 150.00 monthly pension and maybe 8000.00 in the bank.

3. Does he qualify for no copay on medicines from VA?

4. What priority group does he fall in?

5. If dad passes before mom does she qualify for this she was not in service? If she does why does she?

Anything else I should know?

GySgt USMC Retired 1980-2001 Food Services, Recruiter, Security Forces

20% residuals right shoulder

10% tinnitus

40% fibromyalgia

10% lipomas

20% lumbar spondylosis and degenerative disk disease

10% status post cholecystectomy with scars

10% right knee patellofemoral syndrome

10% left knee patellofemoral syndrome

50% anxiety disorder

20% chronic fatigue syndrome

10% keratoconus

30% gastritus claimed as heartburn with gerd, hiatal hernia and baret's esophagus

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