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Memorial Day Are You Wearing Your Medals?

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well i'll be doggoned first time i've agreed with anything nicholson said, i do think it is a good idea for veterans to wear their medals on memorial day and all veterans holidays. civilians need to know us, need to know we are their brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles, friends and customers. i'm wearing mine, meager that they are.

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Medals have never impressed anyone that I've ever met except for the CMH.

Since it was not politically correct to be where I was, when I was there and as far as I know I still can't discuss that period of my service, I think I'll just stay home and take a nap.

Politicians will say anything to anybody if their words to make them look more patriotic or more understanding.

If the secretary really wants me to feel honored, he should direct his underlings to stop delaying my earned benefits and allow the system to treat our medical conditions.

Deeds, not Words.

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It's up to us to help each other.

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No. Medals? I personally did not care about them while I was in. Last 4 years I would rather have a cup of coffee than a medal. Got screwed out of Medal from service 1984-1989 (4 years as Instructor Lowry AFB) by guy who found it too hard to write it (I went remote after that). Got medal for year doing nothing in Korea on remote, read a lot of books that year!

After that I did not care about them (they did help with promotions).

They were difficult to write. Pain the Butt, but I always wrote them for my people (who qualified).

I Hope the Gunney Sgt got his medal (HE could not Teach). (DOD School, USAF, Army, USMC, USN).

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