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since returning or should i say in iraq never had much drive sexual wise being married and true and the stress was crazy, its been 3 years since i have been back and the first few times relations with my wife were ok because at the time fort knox ireland hospital gave me celias for my leave.

well since then my depression, anxiety and medications for blood pressure keep increasing and seems like every depression medication makes me cloudy and fine at first then they have to increase or try new stuff.

but i will say this remeron for my ptsd is awsome makes me less guarded more relaxed but ever since that medication mr willy wonker can not stand at attention for long much less perform a orgasm for my wife so I gave up. wife says fine she understands but BUT i know she has needs to so I dont know what to do relive Iraq night after every other night and wake up pissed off or get or file for ED I am 38 years old this should not be happening to me, I should say for us my wife and I, before all of this we had a very active and pleasant intimacy

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since returning or should i say in iraq never had much drive sexual wise being married and true and the stress was crazy, its been 3 years since i have been back and the first few times relations with my wife were ok because at the time fort knox ireland hospital gave me celias for my leave.

well since then my depression, anxiety and medications for blood pressure keep increasing and seems like every depression medication makes me cloudy and fine at first then they have to increase or try new stuff.

but i will say this remeron for my ptsd is awsome makes me less guarded more relaxed but ever since that medication mr willy wonker can not stand at attention for long much less perform a orgasm for my wife so I gave up. wife says fine she understands but BUT i know she has needs to so I dont know what to do relive Iraq night after every other night and wake up pissed off or get or file for ED I am 38 years old this should not be happening to me, I should say for us my wife and I, before all of this we had a very active and pleasant intimacy

I don't know if you have done this yet, but I would inform your doctors and see what they suggest. If you end up on medication assistive devices, than yes file for comp secondary to the meds and your health issues. I believe all you get is SMC amounting to less than $100 a month, but it's better than nothing.

Hope this helps,

Bergie

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They don't always do bloodwork. However, they will ask you a fair number of intimate questions.

With regards to returning some functionality, visit your primary care doc or a urologist. Depending on your heart condition, you might be able to get some meds. The VA docs typically will give you some levitra, about 4 or 6 pills per month, along with a pill splitter. If you go to a private urologist, some of them will give you a 'party pack' which contains samples of levitra, cialis, viagra, etc... Each work differently for different people, but common side effects are headaches and that list of stuff they ramble off on the tv commercials. You might need to find the right one which works for you. If you can't get samples, ask the VA doc to write you a paper prescription to be filled in a civilian pharmacy. If you have decent private insurance, they tend to pay for some, but not a whole month's worth. Getting the SMC-K award for ED means $96.00 per month, which can come in handy if you want to pay cash at a civilian pharmacy.

I hope things turn out for the better for you.

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If the pills don't work, there are other alternatives. The pump and the urinary track chemical, I have not tried them yet. The pills gave me terrible headaches. And yes, put in a claim for SMC-K, My service adviser calls it Special K:)

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They may not always do bloodwork but I believe it's a required part of the C&P, for ED. It's possible to use recent bloodwork results to assist in their denial. The goal of the bloodwork is to blame it on anything but your meds or PTSD/depression.

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They don't always do bloodwork. However, they will ask you a fair number of intimate questions.

With regards to returning some functionality, visit your primary care doc or a urologist. Depending on your heart condition, you might be able to get some meds. The VA docs typically will give you some levitra, about 4 or 6 pills per month, along with a pill splitter. If you go to a private urologist, some of them will give you a 'party pack' which contains samples of levitra, cialis, viagra, etc... Each work differently for different people, but common side effects are headaches and that list of stuff they ramble off on the tv commercials. You might need to find the right one which works for you. If you can't get samples, ask the VA doc to write you a paper prescription to be filled in a civilian pharmacy. If you have decent private insurance, they tend to pay for some, but not a whole month's worth. Getting the SMC-K award for ED means $96.00 per month, which can come in handy if you want to pay cash at a civilian pharmacy.

I hope things turn out for the better for you.

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Certain Meds and combinations of meds cause this problem, and I am pretty certian that they know.

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