Expedited Benefits For A Dying Verteran

[megan]

Hi-

My Father who served in the Air Force as a mechanic at Walker Air Force Base from 1955-1960 was diagnosed with Mesothelioma in September 2010. After the inital shock we filed a disability claim since he would no longer be able to work or farm (as he did since his time in service). He as undergone all the necessary medical exams, etc. He is under the treatment of the VA and receives Hospice care. The hospice nurse believes from her experience his time is limited to a few weeks at this point.

My question is- is there a way we can expidite his disability claim? His VSO is relatively useless and just tells us to wait, be we are afraid of 'red tape' that may occur if he passes with the claim being granted. Plus, it would be useful in assisting with funeral costs, etc.

Thanks,

Megan

[carlie]

3.159 c

http://edocket.access.gpo.gov/cfr_2009/julqtr/38cfr3.159.htm

[megan]

I'm so happy to report that my Dad's disability claim has been approved & he's still holding on. Thank you for all your assistance, this website is a wonderful resource to all. I will continue to check in and I'm sure I'll need more advice as time passes.

Megan

[halos2]

Megan, I just read your posts and saw where your dad won his claim...I am glad you, he and your family can now devote spending the time together, and not having to fight the VA. You have been given valuable assistance here from many, and post anytime you want. If you have questions on any of the issues already addressed, just log in and ask. Sometimes so much information might overload you, but you will find the folks here at all hours, and although some may not be as versed in your dads illiness all will read and extend encouragement.

Berta is probably the best source of information person to go to regarding needs you might have in the future. My father in law was buried in a private cemetery, and the VA paid the funeral home either $800.00 or $1100.00. Also VFW or AL honor guards were there, and a 21 gun salute, and my husband received the flag that draped his coffin.

The funeral home director got in touch with all and he had the VA forms my husband signed and they sent them to the VA directly too. He didn't have to deal with that at all.

There is a medallion that the VA will send that goes on the tombstone/grave marker the VA will send too. I don't know the form to file for that, but I am sure someone else here knows which one it is.

You are a great daughter trying to help your dad and mother at such a sorrowful time. Find peace and calmness talking with your family, and especially your dad. Sometimes just holding one's hand gives much comfort.

When your dad wants to talk you might want to tape some conversations too in case you have none to listen to from the past. I have a few from my dad and it gives us a sense of peace listening to his voice and always remembering the great love shared by all of us. Comfort and strength is sent to you from me at this time. Peace be with you all. halos2