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Hi everyone. It has been quite some time since my last visit, regrettably. This site is eerily similar to my relationship with God. I seem to only call on him when I need help. Although, Theresa (Tbird) is the closest I’ve seen to an angel on earth.
I’m trying to help a friend of my wife. Only, to get her in the right direction to get professional help. Leony has been married to a retired military veteran for more than 40 years, still married, still loving and living together.
The retired veteran has had multiple operations recently including but not limited to the heart. He was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. His symptoms were getting serious enough to over-ride his stubbornness resisting doctors. He has become recalcitrant, cantankerous, and paranoid recently. Aside from the hardship of caring for her husband (without complaint) she is growing desperate because her husband has growing lapses in providing his share of the household bills. This is worsening. When she asked him to allow her access to do this, he gets very defensive and blows up at her. Although she still works and pays for the household food and some other things, the mortgage and utilities are on him and there have been some troubling letters from them. He has always been reclusive where the family finances are concerned but his mental health is worsening and she doesn’t know where to turn
He is 30 year military retired veteran. She doesn’t know if he ever applied for VA disability. She lives near a Naval base and a VA Regional. I don’t know if I should direct her toward the base legal office or the VA. If anyone has some advice I would surely pass it on.
Again, thanks in advance and my deep regards to Theresa…you have helped so many.
Respectfully, Jim C
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Jim, thanks for helping a veteran. Shortest and easiest answer I can give you is to call the Patient Advocate's Office at the VA Regional Office. You need to find out if he is under VA care and also i
Vync
To add to what @GBArmy recommended, unless you have the appropriate power of attorney for the retired veteran, the VA will not talk with you about him at all. He or his wife will need to do the legwor
EODCMC
Thanks Vync and it’s good to see you are still volunteering your time to this great community. As I intimated, I just want to point her in the right direction. She has been, and still is the kind of s
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