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The Va Taketh Away Faster Than They Giveth...

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A couple of months ago I looked up the regs -- and it said that the Va payment for the month of death is a right of the widow.

I got the VA letter - and it said to call the tool-free number - so I did.

I was told that I had to send in a statement of claim asking to be allowed to keep the February payment -and that it NOT be reclaimed.

I have since closed my joint bank account with my husband. (AT&T was taking money out, but was not authorized to do so - and was not even applying it to our phone bill - so who knows who authorized them to take it out -or where it was going -- I just closed the account - and still have to sort things out with AT&T -which is hard because the fact they are taking money out of OUR bank account is NOT recorded to OUR phone bill - so I haven't found anyone to trace it yet).

Anyway - I Have a personal account with the same bank - which I opened after my husband's death.

Today I called to ask why my avaliable amount is reduced by $225..

The VA has a hold on it. Since our joint account is no longer open - the VA is reclaiming the payment for the month of death from MY account.

Geez!!

It is amazing how fast they can do THAT!!

Too bad they can't pay that fast....

And they wasted MY time and THEIR time - sending me letters telling me to call - and answering my call - and telling me what to do to keep the funds --if they were going to take them back and make me send in another claim to add to their backlog to get the $225 back.

I will have to say it is NOT just the VA --

I have gotten the run-around from Social Security (who - since my son is disabled (autism) --and on SSI - reduced his SSI benefits by 1/3 because he was living with us and receiving support from my husband -- but when he applied for SSD on my husband's record denied him -- because he was not living with my husband or receving support from him (????) The same dang office -- and one cuts his benefits because of my husband's support and one denied him benefits because my husband wasn't supporting him..., the mortgage company, the credit card company who took two months to close my husband's account while fraudulent charges were being added to his card, --well -- pretty much everyone...

Again, it is the no acountability issue -- a world full of toll free numbers in which no one is responsible for what they tell you - so they just tell you anything.

I am tired........

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Free,

No, you certainly aren't crazy, just me. I felt that you have enough to deal with without worrying about my stupid claim.

I know what you mean about that darn Form- 9. I have been lost and half crazy every since, I discovered those psychiaric records in the Archives

Strange they had been there for 40 years and the VA could not locate them. They did't bother to ask for them.

I filled out a form- 9 on a preliminary decision and it was the dumbest thing that I have ever written.

When the form ask, " What did I think that they did Right or Incorrect"? I put down that they didn't do anything right.

Take care and thanks for answering my post.

You have always tried to answer my concerns and I do appreciate it.

I am sorry, but I still do not have the knowedge of the VA to help you with your husbands claim, but there are so many on the site that are versed and can lead you through the process.

If I can assist you, I will be most happy to.

I try to not post questions anymore, as I am just a bore to the site.

Take Care,

Josephine

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You sure do apologize a lot. I have never been bothered by any of your posts.

I guess one thing that was taking me so long working on my husband's claim was trying to back into it from the end of the process. Looking to see where certain actions will take you down the road. Especially in how we handled the closing (if it was closed) of his claim.

Because it is not quite the nonadversarial system they promote is as. But yet the vets do what they do to the best of their ability in the "nonadvesarial" portion -- and then when it gets to the Courts -- it is -- Well you didn't do this and you didn't do that -- and So and so vs. such and such says that you should have blah blah blah...

By the time the vet gets to hire an attorney -- sometimes many mistakes have already been made. Well - actually the vet can hire an attorney - as long as they will work for $10.

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Free,

No, you certainly aren't crazy, just me. I felt that you have enough to deal with without worrying about my stupid claim.

I know what you mean about that darn Form- 9. I have been lost and half crazy every since, I discovered those psychiaric records in the Archives

Strange they had been there for 40 years and the VA could not locate them. They did't bother to ask for them.

I filled out a form- 9 on a preliminary decision and it was the dumbest thing that I have ever written.

When the form ask, " What did I think that they did Right or Incorrect"? I put down that they didn't do anything right.

Take care and thanks for answering my post.

You have always tried to answer my concerns and I do appreciate it.

I am sorry, but I still do not have the knowedge of the VA to help you with your husbands claim, but there are so many on the site that are versed and can lead you through the process.

If I can assist you, I will be most happy to.

I try to not post questions anymore, as I am just a bore to the site.

Take Care,

Josephine

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