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i know this is not va stuff,but i am real worried they found a one inch

tumor on my wifes kidney with c scan,she has mri scheduled the fourteenth.

she is such a wonderful christian woman who saved my life,got me off the

streets and helped me to stop drinking.doc said it is from one to five a four.

if anything were to happen to her i would be a total mess. i am scared.

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You don't have enough info yet skunk You need more than a CT- scan to confirm cancer. I have been there. You have each other, and that makes all challenges less scarry. My most positive thoughts are with your beloved wife and you. Please keep us posted.

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hang in there skunk, will pray for ya,

maybe the blessing is it is small and on something she has two of for easy removal. BEST WISHES and hopefully she will be fine. dont get too down, she needs you to be strong and I would wait for the further tests also... You are in my prayers.

" The enemy controls everything, the roads, the bombs, they even own when and where they will attack. But the second they make the mistake to attack, we own them" ME, reference to insurgents in Iraq

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Prayer sent up.

I agree with everyone else. Let's don't put the cart before the horse here. Let the docs do their thing and get a solid diagnosis and then take it from there. We're all here for you.

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You don't have enough info yet skunk You need more than a CT- scan to confirm cancer. I have been there. You have each other, and that makes all challenges less scarry. My most positive thoughts are with your beloved wife and you. Please keep us posted.

thanks that does make me feel better i am just glad i have hadit people,because i

do not have anybody else but my wife to talk to. i do not know anything about kidney

tumors,and i am just praying it is not cancer. the doc said from 1 through five scale

the tumor is at a four. thank you very much.

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Skunk,

you can talk away and we are here... My pysch told me when he diagnosed me with PTSD to limit talk about it to the wife to save our marraige until I got things under control. So put up the strong face to her and talk to us about whatever you need. I might even suggest you get a counsellor if you can to help. She isnt the only one going through this.

hang in there.

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