I get your frustration. I had several DBQ's done outside the VA (no lawyer, because I was pretty versed in the CFR). My DBQ's were way better and more thorough than any of the VA DBQ exams. One of my examiners was a former QTC guy with over 20,000 exams to his resume. The other was a QTC DBQ instructor. Kind of knows what they are doing so to say, yet they asked for additional C&P's. I pissed off one QTC examiner with these outside exams. She did a hack job C&P exam to counter mine. I reported it to the VARO. Got several more VA exams and ultimately threw the hack job exam out. I wouldn't throw your outside exams in their face, it irritates them. Just go through with them and let your lawyer do his job.