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So when I started anxiety/depression meds. a few months back I haven't been able to finish with my partner which i know isn't ED but I guess they call it delayed ejaculation. This is a concern and all though you wish you had this issue most of the time failing to finish isn't awesome for either person. I've tried a couple things to help the situation but clearly it has changed dramatically since meds. Is there code for this? Thank you

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Mine might be lumped under the same thing though I have both issues. ED really falls under loss of use of a creative organ, which is a catch-all for body systems that aren't already classified other ways. Anxiety meds and depression meds all have this as a side effect to some degree. Ssris are sometimes given to men before trying other things for premature ej.

When you said you had the opposite I briefly thought you were going to talk about priapism which isn't a laughing matter, in all seriousness, but who wouldn't want a four hour erection? 🙂

 

Thanks for lightening up a Friday.

 

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What does your doctor say about this issue? Does your doctor say its a form of ED? If you have not seen a doctor then I would. I believe this is a form of ED. I would suggest still filing for SMC K as "Loss of use of a creative organ". If you cannot finish then you cannot get your partner pregnant (it does not matter if you want more kids or not) so you have lost the use of a creative organ. 

 

I am not an attorney or an a credited VA rep. These are my personal opinions and experiences, always remember what worked for me may not work for you.

You as the veteran are your own best advocate and no one knows your disabilities better than you. It is highly recommended that you as the veteran research and verify that any opinion given meets your specific situation.

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Creative interpretation, but correct, Paul. 

The Earth is degenerating these days. Bribery and corruption abound.Children no longer mind their parents, every man wants to write a book,and it is evident that the end of the world is fast approaching. --17 different possible sources, all lacking verifiable attribution.

B.S. Doane College, Mgt Info Systems/Systems Analysis 2008

M.S.Ed. Purdue University, Instructional Development and Technology, Feb. 2021

M.S. Purdue University Information Technology/InfoSec, Dec 2022

100% P/T

MDD

Spine

Radiculopathy

Sleep Apnea

Some other stuff

-------------------------------------------
B.S. Info Systems Mgt/Systems Analysis-Doane College 2008
M.S. Instructional Technology and Design- Purdue University 2021

 

(I AM NOT A RATER- I work the claims BEFORE they are rated, annotating medical evidence in your records, VA and Legal documents,  and DA/DD forms- basically a paralegal/vso/etc except that I also evaluate your records based on Caluza and try to justify and schedule the exams that you go to based on whether or not your records have enough in them to warrant those)

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 I wish I had this problem when I was younger  man I could not last 2 minutes.😞

Seriously

It would be interesting to know why or what causes this not finishing?

I would see a urologist  it could be the medications you take and they may be other medications to try.

  if a medication effects our mood  I would think maybe that's the one that may cause this problem  especially if u can stay erect,?

Most women would not have a problem with it but some certainly will  if it causes them to become uncomfortable and  start to feel the burn or pain after satisfied??

sorry Maybe TMI  but I don't know how to say it any other way.

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By not finishing it makes your partner start to wonder if they are not satisfying you. JMO

I am not an attorney or an a credited VA rep. These are my personal opinions and experiences, always remember what worked for me may not work for you.

You as the veteran are your own best advocate and no one knows your disabilities better than you. It is highly recommended that you as the veteran research and verify that any opinion given meets your specific situation.

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Yes and it would make me wonder why or whats is wrong with me?

I think I would go see a Specialist for this  it could lead to other major problems or be an underlying problem that needs to be seen about?

I am not an Attorney or VSO, any advice I provide is not to be construed as legal advice, therefore not to be held out for liable BUCK!!!

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