Skunk, yes, I recieved the letter(s) and felt put out to the barn for years. I was depressed for many years afterwards. Terms like 'not well groundedc laim' and denial, 'borderline personality disorder, list of sick call visits', all terms that tore me to shreds, but I only have been able to discuss this here and get anyone to hear me.
I think being a woman, veteran and possible occurences to women serving in the military were used against me when I sought help. My POAs were nut cases when I started applying, I was ignored and reassured my 'husband' would take care of me and others had it much worse. Why share intimate details of my disabilities with others; mostly civilian freinds or ancient service officers. There was and is limited care for women at the VA. If I had to take my kids into the VA, dont know what I'd do to protect em. My husband has only gone in few time and thinks same.
Hey, so I get fired up and energized by concerns like yours, guess the fire is to do better for me and for others. Had 20% sc when I got to Hadit. Worked hard, exposed my soul to nearly everyone though God should had been the only one. I just got up to 90% to correctly connect some of my disability issues incurred during service to my country.
Form or standard denial letters are the norm, not acceptable if they dont reason out your disability correctly within the regulations.
Go to the VA, get health care and then reapply. Show effort, get help from someone. Just dont feel alone and I hope you dont continue to take VA form letters or denials as personal. Sure slowed me down for years, but helped to talk it out to a professional.
God Bless and best to ya,
Cg