Hedgey
Yes, if he has just be filed for PTSD it is a good idea to stay in the loop. DH can see the VA shrink, but get his real treatment from your doctor, perhaps. What the VA does is they cut you down to seeing the VA shrink once every three months for a medcheck. They don't do psychotherapy. DH could join a PTSD group therapy via the VA. I know DH wants to document his PTSD as much as possible through the VA.