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If I have been short with you or lacked empathy I apologize profusely. I have not been myself and have been dealing with my Irish Temper something I thought I had better control of for a long time.

An old Hadit Member Kim who was third party for MTSkull taught me that restraint of tongue and pen is the way to go.

Until I feel better I am going to ease back but not completely. If I see something that needs addressing I will but I am going to let others answer new Veterans questions. I plan to welcome and greet and try to offer moral support.

I guess that the long and short of it is that we never get well just have remissions. I have asked for appointments to see Docs and will start going again Monday. I took time off during the flu season from going to the VA.

When stress is applied it is very difficult to maintain peace and tranquility not that I ever have been completely at Peace but in a much better place.

At least I still enjoy my family and today my best friend is picking me up and we are going to eat Mexican Food at a favorite restaurant.Tomorrow a dear friend is driving up from San Antonio and his wife and Mrs Pete will join for a dinner out. We double dated with them all the time before either of us got married.

Sometimes we just have to let others help us and this is that time for me.

Pete

Veterans deserve real choice for their health care.

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Pete - Dude... from what I have seen you are fine, and have reacted reasonably in all the situations here - even the really crazy ones.

Anyway man, relax, whatever was said could not have been that bad. You are my hero man.

Bob

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Pete,

I am sorry for I have no ideal of what you are talking about.

I can't think of a thread that I started that you failed to post.

You gave me the stength to hang in and always had the kindest of words to say to me.

Be easy on yourself, for you have been a God sent to all of us.

Betty

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An apology for needing to take "Pete" time: Never necessary!

Gratitude to a fine peaceful gentleman: Priceless!!

All the time you wish to assist you with your life's issues:Granted!

Peaceful thoughts and well wishes sent your way:Forever!

halos2 will watch wings surround you with love and tranquility!

:rolleyes:

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