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Will I Escape My Anti-Social World

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82airborne

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Well this is a new thread. I have completed a 16 week course of psychotherapy in a group of about 10-15 people. I have realized I prefer being alone away from strangers. I hate going to hospitals and it's a bunch of STrANGE individuals around me. Right now I'm feeling extra jittery lightheaded shaky all of the above. My question is how will psychs are MEDS stop these crazy thoughts that I have. Will I stay jittery. I swear I take about close to tn pills a day my primary are physician says that my liver points are up. It could be because of the pills I don't know. That's one reason I been paranoid of going to the doctor. When I didn't go to the doctor all my lab results was fine. Now that I keep current with doctors it seems my health s getting worse and worse. Ok I'm 90% disabled my income is ok and stable but it as done nothing far as my mind and the way I think. So I realize like a said months ago no money in the world would benefit you if your mind isn't right. So yes I plan on staying in therapy just not group counseling. I will only leave the house for doctor visits and psych visits. I will avoid being around strangers because I still have a very violent side that's easily provoked. This February I turn 40. Will I part I doubt it. I have no real. Desire to party with others. Even with my family I have mild desires of being with. So this is where I'm at right now. My insurance waiver has been waived for 10,000 dollars of insurance I called the insurance to check and make sure I was right because in my health right now death. Is certan to my future. I told her I was 90% disabled and my fees was waived she said the only way it was waived if I was Lund totally disabled. So I guess they got me at 10O% disable they just haven't told me. I don't know. I plan on calling the 800 number to check to see if I need to submit anything for the tdiu part of my claim. OOOOH well today starts a new chapter of my life after group therapy. Once again THANX for having me one more time. This place have helped me get through many miserable nights when insomnia reared it's ugly head after I wrote out my thoughts on here I was able to go to sleep so I guess venting helps

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Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays back at ya' airborne.

And I vote for avoiding random ignorant people who rub you the wrong way. I would like to get better at avoiding those kind of people better myself. ;)

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Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays back at ya' airborne.

And I vote for avoiding random ignorant people who rub you the wrong way. I would like to get better at avoiding those kind of people better myself. ;)

Yes indeed. It seem like they are everywhere!!!!
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Yes indeed. It seem like they are everywhere!!!!

As much as I hate to admit it, sometimes *I* am the random ignorant person to someone else. :blush:

Think Outside the Box!
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As much as I hate to admit it, sometimes *I* am the random ignorant person to someone else. :blush:

Yes you are right I am also. I can relate. But the best way I found to deal with it is just don't be around people and if you do got to be around people make it short and sweet. Have a good night and may this new year bring us nothing but cheer and happiness

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Good lord I'm being tormented in my sleep. Every night I'm having violent wierd dreams. I stopped taking ambien my throat was getting to dry. Sleep is becoming my biggest enemy. IM up to 7 prazosin and I'm having nightmares. Well it seems like prazosin only works for a while then stops. Also this dam ringing in my ears has become louder. So like old doctor says up my prazosin a dose so I gotta go up to 8 pills at night. I have been going out more. I have not had enemy bad desires. I really don't interact much with people when I'm out. To tell YALL the truth I feel like a zombie. Numb confused lost all at the same time. I just don't know how this mind thing came to be like it is. One day I'm chasing women then the next day I'm locking myself inside the house. Also every night I'm waking up around two or three a.m. Hallucinating seeing things in the dark. It's 1:28 am where I'm at and really I'm sorta scared to go to sleep. Even tho I'm use to the nightmare scene these dreams is just weird crazy at the same time. :-/ well this is where I'm at as of now.

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Brother 82,

I read your thoughts and wish there was something I could do to instantly make your situation better. Sadly, the only thing I can do is offer you encouragement and be here...whenever you want to talk, I will listen. I know that doesn't seem like much but I don't really know what else to do other than pray you continue to relay your struggles to the professional doctors & that you can get relief.

Treatment (pills, etc.) for PTSD is often different for each individual. But never stop trying. Hope they find something that at the correct dosage gives you the peace so you can once again enjoy your life. Keep taking things one day at a time! God bless you...

LC

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God Bless you all and Good Luck.

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