Robert - I've been attending the same group for about 15 yrs. We rarely discuss VN and activities there, except when a new member joins the group, and then we introduce overselves, giving our VN background. At our weekly group,we normally discuss how week's been going, for each of us, and types of problems we may be having, which may be family related, money related or even claim related, etc. Most members attend most wks. Sometimes we have to screen out a phoney, here or there. The last was a special ops Coastie, who was attached to the CIA and of course all documents were sealed. I think he said he was there in 75-76. Anyway, I found it helpful for me. I do know I don't have much use for those who've never served, period. Hang in there!
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